Judgments

We humans are our own nemesis. When it comes to being judgmental, I think we are the scariest species around. We tend to look at a lot of things on the surface and through that few seconds, deem someone a certain way in our personal records.

Personally I think it's unfair and unjust that someone or anyone for that matter, is being exposed to such humanly behaviour which to me is unjustified. No doubt first impressions count for a lot of things but until we know how someone is as a person, would we learn to appreciate their presence.

No one likes to be judged. I usually give others the benefit of the doubt when it comes to character and behaviour as i think everything else is superficial. Action speaks louder than words and only when superficiality is backed and justified by actions would I come to a conclusion on how I view and perceive a certain individual.

Making snap judgments are only human nature. Everyone does it, u and me. But I think that there is a place and time when such things are to be practised. In terms of making friends or accepting other people's friends, I believe we could all give each other a chance.

Judgments and conflicts are the very reason why wars happen and hatred is bred. Life is simple, don't make it too complicated for all of us to share this little space. Live and let live for things would be much smoother in life for all. Cheers.