In our daily lives, we can never escape from running into problems, be it personal or work issues, all of us experience it. Even the most happy go lucky guy *ahem* has his fair share of problems as well.
Life would have been greater without these issues you'd say but to me without problems, life would have lost its meaning. If life was all rosy then we as humans wont push ourselves to any limits of the mental barrier to be better than good, greater than great.
Emotional problems however, can be taxing to the people affected by it and even worst for the person experiencing it. So many a times, we slip into depression when we cannot cope and feel that life as we know it, is going against us. All in all for some, the thoughts of suicide would cross their mind.
Suicide doesnt solve anything, in fact it adds on to the current problems that one has. It implicates loved ones as they have to now cope with the loss of losing someone close suddenly and bear the burden of his/her problems.
Then they are some who literally pass the problem on to someone else and expect them to solve their problems for them. Asking someone for help is commendable but taking the easy way out and expect your problems to go away just like that is as good as leaving your fate to someone else and making him/her run your life for you.
Naturally as humans, we expect help but we dont really want to hear on how best to manage these ourselves. We just want to see it solved and get on with living life.
Life is like swimming in an open sea. Along the way we will get tired and just feel like going under. But right at that moment, most would resist it, refusing to give up and try our level best to get help. Even when there is help, we still need to make an effort to make the job easier for the lifesaver. If we dont, then he/she would let you drift away back to the open seas.
At the end of day, only we can help ourselves. Others are there to lighten the load but we need to make good of that lift so that all efforts are not wasted.
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