What would you get when love turns to hate? Bitterness, animosity, sadness, disappointment and many other negative feelings that you can think of.
Love is a wonder which no one will ever understand. Some people say its a feeling while others would agree that it's all in the actions. But one thing's for sure, love is blind and unconditional. When we declare to the other party our love for them, do we really mean it?
What is even more baffling is the fact that we can actually reach a state of hate with the same person we've said "i love you" to all this while. Some of us go through ugly divorces and some have bad breakups. At the end of it we become enemies with each other. The sweet times shared becomes time loss. The material things bought together and we consider dreams, becomes a burden.
How can it be possible that the person we love at one point in time is also the same person we hate now? I've been in that position before. But more importantly how did i move on? Time is of essence. Let time heal the hurt. But also sit and reflect and ask yourself, is it really worthwhile to bear this grudge moving on in life?
It is only after letting go of all this would we be moving on in peace. It's not easy, but it's something we need to do in order to find meaning in life again. Cry, whine, curse all you want but at the end of it all, forgive. It's essential.
Love is a wonder which no one will ever understand. Some people say its a feeling while others would agree that it's all in the actions. But one thing's for sure, love is blind and unconditional. When we declare to the other party our love for them, do we really mean it?
What is even more baffling is the fact that we can actually reach a state of hate with the same person we've said "i love you" to all this while. Some of us go through ugly divorces and some have bad breakups. At the end of it we become enemies with each other. The sweet times shared becomes time loss. The material things bought together and we consider dreams, becomes a burden.
How can it be possible that the person we love at one point in time is also the same person we hate now? I've been in that position before. But more importantly how did i move on? Time is of essence. Let time heal the hurt. But also sit and reflect and ask yourself, is it really worthwhile to bear this grudge moving on in life?
It is only after letting go of all this would we be moving on in peace. It's not easy, but it's something we need to do in order to find meaning in life again. Cry, whine, curse all you want but at the end of it all, forgive. It's essential.
1 comment:
One this note, I've always thought, if you claim that you love someone, how can one ever say, "I don't Love You anymore."
It's probably not love to begin with I reckon.
Dont you think? I love you dont come easy. When Mom says it, I dare say she means it.
If it's Agape we are talking about, it will take a ton of loveeee!
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