Ups & Downs.

life is filled wif ups and downs. totally saw that wif my own eyes just now. went out wif my fren for dinner and on our way home we passed by a fren's house whom we havent seen in a while. its been almost 3 yrs since i last saw him and so i thought y not give him a visit.

3 yrs ago, he was leading a hard life. financial issues was the root of it all. my group of frens would always visit his family and try to help as much as we could, be it financially or simply giving moral support for him to push on. back then, i always remembered us telling him that every human is bound to go thru tough and good times in life. maybe that was his. now, after becoming a hermit frog for sometime, he is finally breaking away from his shell.

he looks so different now that he is married, holds a stable job wif a wonderful income, lead a much stable and happier life wif his family and most importantly, his wife is expecting a child. he is even planning to move out of his current place to a bigger flat. nothing seems to be going wrong for him at the moment and i felt really happy for him cos after goin thru all those tough and rocky period, he is finally getting his just desserts.

how life changes and how the tides has turned. life is indeed unpredictable. it also made me realise im taking alot of things for granted. it is only when we have gone thru tough times would we actually begin to appreciate little little things that come our way. humans are weird. they usually learn and absorb thru hard ways. the easy way dun always work. and i am no exception. maybe there are things to be learnt from this. strive on and nv give up. that goes to all of u who r reading this as well. if u do face some shitty situations in the future, remember push urself and things ought to get better alright. take heart.