Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Dollars & Sense

"For money or passion?"

I saw someone tweeting about this the other day and quietly inside me, I immediately shouted out, PASSION! It looked that easy a question to answer that I didn’t put in much thought into answering it. But when I really did give it some thought, it wasn’t as straightforward as I thought it would be.

Passion was an easy choice because you do what you like; naturally you would like what you do. The danger that revolves around passion is that over time, you’ll lose steam and it slowly starts becoming a chore. When that happens, you would start losing interest in it and end up treating it like work – something we would all definitely like to avoid.

A friend of mine once said, "Why not give other things a chance? If you hate it, then you can always go back to fulfilling your passion."

I reflected and couldn’t decide on whether to agree or to disagree with that statement. He has a point in saying that maybe perhaps there are some other things worth fulfilling first before pursuing your passion. But if we were to keep with that mentality, then won’t we end up never fulfilling our passion? Why do we want to go about doing something which we don’t like doing just for the sake of discovery, when we know that there is something we like doing which is staring us right in our face?

I supposed once money comes into the picture then the choice could be pretty much clearer in terms of which route we should be taking. Passion requires a lot of effort and hard work to make it sustain our standard of living. For most of us, passion is more of a hobby. For a few lucky ones, passion became their careers. At the end of the day, what is our motivation? What is it exactly that drives us? Dollars, or our common sense? Go figure.

Friday, January 08, 2010

Childhood dreams


Was talking to a friend of mine the other day and one of the topics we talked about was, "What did you want to be when you were small?"

It didn't occur to me until then that I had a few aspirations and dreams when I was small. The first real dream I had was that I wanted to be an architect. Why architect? Simple. It was because everyone wanted to be lawyers and doctors but I wanted something of that stature, only with a difference. I held on to that dream for some time but I never really knew what it takes to be one and personally I thought it was far-fetched so I gave that up when I came across another dream.

The next thing I thought I could become was a historian working in a museum or something. I was and have always been very into history. Reading history books have never been an issue, memorizing the facts was. I was always intrigue at how something happened and what happened then but after confusing all the dates of events that happened during world war 2, I knew then that this wasn't going to work out either.

And then came Wong Li Lin and Triple Nine. I fell for her good looks; I also fell in love with the job. This was one dream that almost came true. But after a single rejection letter and 2 years of national service later, I knew I would have cursed and swear if I did got in.

Which brings us here to where I am now. A humble business analyst supporting a bunch of consultants bringing thought leadership to the companies we're servicing in hope of leveraging on what's what in the market right now. Is this my dream? Well hardly so.

My real dream now is to simply help people. That I’m doing, with small baby steps into the unknown. On whether I’ll reach that goal of mine? Well maybe someday. I'm always hopeful.

So, what did you want to be when you were small? :)